This
is the history of my grandfather, John S. Haslem
as I have been told it by my older relatives, that I have reason
to believe
should know and would have no reason to tell me anything but the
truth
as they knew it.
First,
I will start with my Aunt Lizzie Bennett,
who was his daughter. She said her father ran away from home in
England
at twelve years old and got a job on a ship. After making
several voyages
between England and the U.S., he met this ship load of mostly
Mormon converts
with the Hamers, Openshaws, and others. He became very good
friends with
them, so he left the ship and joined them at New Orleans. They
all stayed
together almost as one family, 35 or 40 of them, and got along
so well
they tried to stay together until they landed in Utah, and all
settled
in the 16th Ward in Salt Lake City. Mr. Hamer
was a blacksmith (I take it a very handy man to have when they
needed so
many handcarts and wagons to travel in), so Grandfather learned
his blacksmith
trade from him. As we all know he did blacksmithing for years
before died.
Before that he worked for Brigham Young
around the Lion and Beehive House, and had charge of their
private stores,
as Brigham's first daughter that was born in Utah mentions him
as giving
her candy in her history of their family. John S. married Mr.
Hamer's daughter
Martha.
In
crossing the plains they all started with Brigham Young and the
first company
in 1847, but when they got to where they built the wagons and
handcarts,
Brigham asked John S. Haslem and Mr. Hamer
to stay there and make wagons and handcarts for the immigrants
for a year
or more. He told them to let the rest of their families go on.
Had they
taken Brigham Young's advice they wouldn't have had trouble, as
they had
plenty of food there to get them through in good shape. But they
didn't
like to be separated, so decided to all stay (twenty or more
men), and
they would hurry and get all the carts and wagons made, and then
go the
next summer, as they thought they would have food to last that
long. But
next spring they had no surplus wagons as the immigrants took
them as fast
as they could make them. By the way, if they did get any pay for
their
work, they didn't get enough to replace their food they ate
while they
were making these wagons. If the immigrants didn't have anything
to trade
for wagons, Brigham said to let them have them anyway, as their
labor was
classed as a mission for the Church. So they didn't want to be
pikers after
Brigham had asked them to stay, so the years went by until they
were getting
so short of food they decided if they were going to get to Utah
as all,
they had to start.
The
rest of this story was told to me by Aunt Jane Ellen
Spencer, my father's oldest sister from Escalante, who was blind
twelve
years of her life, but raised a large family and all good
citizens. She
and Uncle Joe
would drive their wagon to American Fork each fall when the
peaches were
ripe and then take a load back home to Escalante. Aunt Jane
would stay
to our home while Uncle Joe went to Salt Lake on the train for a
week to
LDS General Conferences. While there, Dad
would get Aunt Jane
Dallen, John
S. Haslem's wife's sister, from Springville to stay with us a
couple of
nights also, and the stories they would tell of their trip
across the plains
were wonderful to us kids. We would listen to them for hours and
never
get tired, as they both walked all that distance and nearly all
in either
mud on the first part and snow after they came to Wyoming. The
only time
they rode at all was after Brigham
Young's wagon came to rescue them, and many women and children
and mostly
ill, so there wasn't much room for those that were able to walk.
If I remember
their ages correct, Aunt Jane Ellen
was twelve years old, and Aunt Jane
Dallen in her early twenties and married to Sam Dallen
with one or two children. I well remember they both said their
biggest
problem was to walk in those long skirts the people of those
days insisted
they wear. They were always frozen with either snow or mud, as
they couldn't
get them dry at night around a campfire. Many nights they were
forced to
sleep in their wet clothes as they were short of bedding, and
all through
Wyoming it was snow sixteen inches deep at times and the men
pulling handcarts
through it. Yes, I can see why their journey was so slow.
I
will now tell the story that I thought the best. I was fifteen,
sixteen,
and seventeen years old the last times Jane Dallen was there,
and Aunt
Jane Ellen Spencer had been totally blind for more than twelve
years. But
both her and Aunt Jane Dallen's memory were as sharp and good as
when they
were younger. I am not sure how old they were but I think Aunt
Jane Ellen
would be in her late sixties and Jane Dallen twelve or fifteen
years older.
They told us many stories, all very interesting and all
faith-promoting.
They always said nothing but the help of the Lord could have
saved their
lives and helped them so they were able to get through their
hard trip,
even though Aunt Jane Dallen (the mother of Cyrus E. Dallen,
the sculptor that made the Angel Moroni on the Salt Lake Temple,
Massasoate,
the big Indian at the State Capitol in Salt Lake City, and
Brigham Young
Monument at South Temple and Main, SLC) was an apostate from the
LDS Church.
I will tell you why if I have room. She would bear the most
wonderful testimonies,
yet her family was too proud to ask forgiveness to come back
into the church,
so they died out of the church. By the way, Sam Dallen was a
miner and
worked the same mountain out at Tintic as Jesse Knight,
who mined so much rich ore there. But Dallen spent his whole
life there
and never got a mine that paid him much money. I sometimes
wonder if the
Lord didn't have something to do with that, as Jesse Knight was
the Church's
biggest tithe payer at this time, so I am told. The Church sure
needed
the honest tithe Jesse Knight paid. He also contributed many
thousands
of dollars to B.Y.U. College.
Now
back to my story. As John
S. Haslem was making wagons for the immigrants, there came a
party of trappers
that could go no farther with their full wagon as they went off
the main
roads in their trapping business. So John S. Haslem made a
tongue to go
in the rear axle of their wagon and a box to put their stuff in
so they
could ride on top, or in other words, a two-wheeled cart that
was high
so it would go over the stumps and high roads. These trappers
were so pleased
they gave him twenty dollars, and about the only money he had
seen for
a long time, and twenty dollars was a lot in those times. They
were starting
on their trip at 3 p.m., so John S. told them they had better
wait until
next morning and sleep in the shop where it was dry, as it was
storming.
So when the trappers went for their horses at daybreak next
morning one
had died, and they didn't have enough money, if it was
available, so John
S. felt so bad for them he asked them how long they expected to
be gone.
They thought one year at the most, and maybe six months if they
got a load
of furs that soon. So John
S. told them to take one of his horses, as he thought he
wouldn't need
his team which, by the way, was a good team. So they did and
left John
S. with one horse. But when he decided to start to Utah, he had
only one
horse and no money to buya
good
one, and horses were very scarce. People used mostly oxen these
days at
this place, so John S. bought a little Indian pony for three
dollars and
put it with his big horse, and made the big horse pull most of
the wagon,
which was OK until they hit muddy roads. Then they had to
discard most
of the load, as the horses could not pull it. If my memory
serves me right,
Grandad's (John S.) wagon was the only one in the company. All
the rest
were handcarts. So the wagon was mostly full of ill people and
small children
too small to walk. So they plodded on as best they could, until
their horses
gave out, and they could only make a few miles a day. So the
rest of the
company could go faster, they went on and said they would send
someone
back to rescue them. They expected to find help at Ft. Bridger,
Wyoming,
but no one was there to send back.
But
back to the story again. Because of such slow travel they were
getting
short of food, and lived on nothing but the wild game they would
shoot.
But about now they ran out of ammunition so they couldn't get
what few
rabbits and deer were there. So for many days all they had to
eat was the
old bones the coyotes had left. They would mash them and crush
them with
the back of an ax, and boil the marrow out of the center in a
big thirty
gallon iron pot. As long as they could see one bead of grease on
the soup
they ate it, and it saved them from starving for many days (and
that was
a testimony to them that the Lord put something in the soup to
keep them
well). But with that diet they soon got so weak they could go no
farther.
They came to an old trapper's cabin built of just logs with
nothing in
the cracks. But it had a fireplace in the end, so they filled
the cracks
as best they could with cedar bark, and moved their bedding and
grub boxes
in- which was all they had room for, by the time twenty or more
people
got in. They all had to sleep in one bed on the floor, while one
sat up
all night to keep a big fire to help keep warm, as it was one of
those
Wyoming blizzards that are so common at that time of year. By
now they
had lost their hope of being rescued, as they had prayed for so
many days,
and the hunger pains were so bad. They decided this was the end.
But they
would be in the cabin with a little protection from the weather
and their
corpses would be found. But this night they prayed extra long,
then all
went to bed, except the oldest woman was to sit up and keep the
fire going.
As she was watching the fire she heard something behind her, and
there
was a big white rabbit she said was nearly as big as a sheep,
standing
on its hind legs, on the foot of the bed where the boys were
sleeping.
He stood there while she woke the boy to grab him, and she was
so sure
he would get away. As she woke the boy, he grabbed it, and it
didn't get
away, so they cleaned it and put it in their thirty gallon pot
that was
already hot on the fire. They started to eat the soup almost
before it
boiled. They said that was the best meal either of them had ever
tasted,
even though it was only rabbit. He lasted them two days. The
storm quit
and here came the trappers with John
S.'s horse and quite a little surplus corn they had traded for
from the
Indians. That lasted until one of Brigham
Young's rescue wagons came with food to last the remainder of
their journey.
This
story Aunt Lizzie
told me doesn't go along with the story we got from Mrs. Morris,
our genealogist in England. She says John S. Haslem
served as an English sailor, and Aunt Lizzie says he told her he
was a
runaway after twelve years old. Mrs. Morris says the King
endowed all of his illegitimate children except John S., and it
is my thought
that the reason was because the King didn't know where he was. I
have read
a letter from the caretaker of those children that said, "We
have finally
found John S. Haslem. He is in America and has joined the
Brighamites."
I know my Aunt Lizzie Bennett wouldn't tell me the story her
father told
her wrong, so just take your choice which story you think is
correct.
John
H. Haslem (December 1969)
Editor's
note:
John H. Haslem, in this biography, also tells about himself,
and
the Dallen family. It does not specifically relate to the life
of John
S. Haslam, but may be of interest to family members:
"I
have details of how I went to Mesa and met my third wife in my
genealogy
book, if anyone is interested in such baloney. But to me that
was by inspiration
and a wonderful blessing to me. When I would read my
Patriarchal Blessing
it said my last days would be my best. I couldn't see how that
was possible
as Rebecca
was seven years younger than I, and in perfect health before
she took the
Multiple Sclerosis. But now I know it is true, as Pearl
and I live very happy together, and don't have to worry about
our living
expenses. We spend most of our time doing temple work for the
dead, and
our activities with the senior citizens once or more each week
makes it
quite pleasant for us. We go and come as we please to visit
all of our
families and get along with them well, I am happy to say. Our
health is
good for our age so what more would we ask for? I was 81 years
old last
August 11, 1969, and healthy and happy. Pearl was 69 February
28, 1969,
both happy and contented."
"Now
the
story of why the Dallen family left the Church after they got
here
in Salt Lake at November LDS Conference. When the Latter Day
Saints turned
in their belongings to try and live the United Order, as they
did for some
years, Aunt Jane
Dallen gave them her silk wedding dress and thought no more of
it. But
when they arrived here, almost naked for clothes (as they had
traded all
they could spare, and more to the Indians for corn to eat as
they traveled
when they got hungry), they went to Brigham Young
for clothes, and he was sorry but all he had left was blue
denims. So she
took enough of that to make enough so they could go to church.
And when
she got to church, there sat a lady on the stand wearing Aunt
Jane's silk
dress. As soon as church was out she tried to trade dresses
with this woman,
but the woman had got it honestly and refused to give the
dress up. They
fussed so much the Dallen family left the Church and moved to
Springville,
and never were active in the Church again. Yet when Mrs.
Dallen would tell
the story she would cry and usually say how foolish she was to
let a silk
dress deprive her of her salvation in the highest degree of
glory. But
she said the Bishop insisted they ask forgiveness in Fast
Meeting for the
trouble they made, and she and family were too proud to do it,
when they
thought they were in the right. So, as far as I know, none of
them ever
came back in the Church.
Now
I am going to speak of Cyrus E. Dallen,
the sculptor, and what he said when he spoke at my Uncle George
Bennett's funeral, at the Joseph W. Taylor Mortuary (at about
141 N. Main
in Salt Lake City). He had come from Boston, where he had
lived for quite
some time, just to attend this funeral. So Aunt Lizzie
asked him to speak, as he was a well-known sculptor all over
the United
States by then. I think he was about sixty years old. He spoke
of the hardships
he and his family endured after they went to Springville. He
said he wouldn't
have gotten but a very little schooling, as his father needed
him to help
in his mine, but as he would sit down to rest he would take
the soft talc
(most mines have), and mold horses and other things, until one
day an old
man came and saw them and was impressed. He asked Cyrus's
father to let
him put him in a sculpture school as he knew he was a born
genius and would
make a mark in that work. Mr. Dallen had no money so the old
man loaned
it to him, so after Cyrus graduated he came back to
Springville and paid
the money back for his schooling, and about this time the LDS
Church needed
an angel to put on the temple in Salt Lake, President Wilford
Woodruff
knew Cyrus could do the best job of making one, so sent for
him to come
to Salt Lake. When he left Springville his mother was quite
sure what the
Church wanted, so cautioned him to be sure and get the job, as
they needed
the money so bad. But Cyrus told the President he couldn't do
it as he
had to have a pattern to work with, and he had never made
anything without
a live pattern. Furthermore, he didn't believe in angels, and
he knew there
was no such thing. So when the President couldn't change his
thinking,
he told him to go back home and they would all pray about it,
and the President
was sure Cyrus would come back and do the job. But Cyrus said
he didn't
believe in prayer then, or when he was speaking, either. His
mother
was at the train to meet him as he was still quite young yet
and she was
anxious to hear he took the job. When he told her he had to
have a pattern
to work with, and he didn't even believe there were such
things as angels,
she said, "I don't believe it. You called me your angel mother
many times."
Cyrus said, "That gave me an idea. Why not pattern the Angel
Moroni after
my mother?" So he wrote the President that he would take the
job. He apologized
for the angel looking so feminine after he made it, but said
he tried to
make it more like a man, but his mother was the only pattern
he could find.
Cyrus Dallen also said that Massasoate, at the Capitol in Salt
Lake City,
was the actual size of the Indian he use as a pattern, over
nine feet tall.
He had looked all over the United States for the largest
Indian, and found
this tribe of extra large Indians in the Northwest. So he
picked the largest
one to pattern after. His name wasn't Massasoate, but he gave
the finished
work that name as it was such a popular Indian name. Dallen
also made the
Brigham Young Monument at South Temple and Main, and the
Indian on the
horse at the Capitol."