CATHERINE
CAMERON SOUTHAM
Life Sketch from Alice Cook
by John H. Haslem
Joseph
W. Young
was Captain of the Company they came to Utah with. Ancel
Harman assisted John Cameron drive his four yoke of oxen to draw the heavy
wagon. When they had traveled several days, John Cameron took sick, and
was not able to take over again. Catherine was a young girl, but she drove
her father's oxen with Oscar
Young's help when needed. They had traveled up the river from St. Louis
to Florence, Nebraska in a boat. When they arrived at Council Bluffs, Iowa,
Jannett
was born June 9, 1861, and her father was still sick, and now the mother
was sick also. It was a very heavy load for Catherine to care for her sick
parents, and the smaller children. Their company of Saints, like all the
others, traveled all the hot summer over prairies and mountains to Salt
Lake Valley, and arrived in late October, 1861.
They
settled in Salt Lake Valley, until called by Presiding Bishop Hunter
to settle Round Valley, the first settlers in Round Valley. Later Bishop
Hunter let him have a piece of land, and helped him when he needed help.
On the 28th November 1862, Catherine was married to George Southam
in the Endowment House as his plural wife. John Cameron was put in charge
of Bishop Hunter's farm in Round Valley, and also farmed his own land.
George Southam also worked for Bishop Hunter until later when they moved
to Morgan, and later to Evanston, Wyoming. They became the parents of fourteen
children. Four did not live to be named. The first wife, Jane Carter
Southam only had one child, a son- Finas Henry Southam
born Jan. 28, 1856 at St. Louis, Missouri, and died there Oct. 21, 1856.
George Southam
was a kind and devoted father, and also a faithful Latter Day Saint, and
fulfilled his calling in the church to the best of his ability- all of
his assignments, as well as living an exemplary life, In the fall of 1885,
George Southam asked his son, George Henry
(Harry) to go out to Ashley Valley to look for a new home, as he wished
to raise his family in a Mormon community, where his children might select
companions of Latter Day Saint members. Evanston had many good people,
but not many Latter Day Saints, and the railroad brought many who were
not so good. Harry stayed in Ashley Valley that winter, and lived most
of the time with Uncle Jerry Hatch.
On
the 24th of December, 1885, while crossing the Bear River with his team
and wagon, the ice broke and drowned George Southam and his team. His body
went under the ice, and wasn't found for five days while his family suffered,
and friends searched in vain to locate his body. All had given up hope
of finding him, when the mother of George Southam appeared to his daughter Alice
(thirteen years old), in a dream. She told Alice her name was Lucy Hunt,
and she was George Southam's mother, and she needed her son to help her.
She also told Alice where to cut the ice, some mile or so from where he
had drowned to find him. Alice said she had seen the willow branch that
he was lodged in, in her dream just as plain as when they saw it, and found
her father. Alice woke her mother in the night after her dream, and said,
"We will find Papa tomorrow." James Williams
said he would try just this one more place, and then they would give up
the search, as it was so cold on Bear River, cutting ice. This time Alice
showed them the right place to cut, and they were successful. About a week
before George Southam was drowned, he had a dream that he was going on
a mission. He told his wife that he was either going on a foreign mission
or would be called to the other side of the veil, and if he did die to
be sure he was buried in a Mormon Cemetery, and in his temple clothes.
As
early as 1871, Catherine
began to work with the sick, and seemed to be a natural-born nurse. When
a small girl she always had her dolls sick so she could doctor and nurse
them better. Her father
told her she should be a nurse when she grew up. In 1871 she started helping
the sick, and they appreciated it so much- her kindness, they never forgot
her kindness. She assisted Dr. Harrison,
and Dr. Hawlker
in Evanston, Wyoming. While her children were very young, Aunt Jane
(George Southam's first wife) tended the children. She was like a mother
to the children. I have heard the older children say they loved Aunt Jane
nearly as much as their mother. She raised no children of her own, and
she loved children very much, so she was a great help to Catherine in rearing
her big family while she worked out with the sick. She worked in the Deseret
Hospital at intervals- about two years with Dr. Anderson
and Mattie Paul Hughes,
and with Zina D. Young.
In 1911 she told her granddaughter, Alice Southam Cook,
that she had assisted in over 1,000 births of babies, and she still practiced
many years after that. Her fee for her work was $5.00, if they had the
cash, and most of the people she helped didn't, so she would take her pay
in wheat or whatever the poor people had that they could spare. John H.
Haslem,
her grandson from Alice
Haslem, was with her one day when she was making her last call
on Mrs. John J. Davis-
he was the President of the Uintah Stake- and he told her he didn't have
money, but wheat he would like to pay her with. Wheat was next best to
cash in those days. She got her seamless sacks she always carried under
the seat in her two-wheeled cart (as she didn't have a buggy yet, but got
one later to travel all over Ashley Valley, and Jensen, and Brush Creek).
We filled the two sacks nearly full, as wheat was priced at $2.50 per sack.
We were sweeping the wheat bin trying to fill the last sack, when she came
on the scene, and said, "Brother Davis it that all the wheat you have?"
He said yes, but he was about ready to thrash more wheat, so would soon
fill his wheat bin again. She told Johny to dump that wheat back in under
the boys' bed where we got it from. She said, "I never took the last kernel
of wheat from anyone yet, and I won't take this from you." We drove away
without any pay. It was customary to have twenty or thirty bushels of wheat
under the homemade bed that the boys usually slept in, for safe keeping,
and Brother Davis
was no exception. I think Brother Davis paid her later, but I am sure she
delivered more babies that she didn't collect pay for, than the ones she
did.
Now
back to her move from Evanston. In the fall of 1886, Catherine and her
family, and her older daughter and her husband, Warren L. Allen,
and their family, moved to Ashley Valley. This valley was yet new and sparsely
settled, so her children could get homes of their own as they grew up.
Before this move to Ashley Valley she was helping her father do the work
for their dead the year the Salt Lake Temple opened. She told her father
she would have to give up helping the sick, as she felt it was more than
she could do while caring for her young family. Her father said, "Catherine,
you are all that your mother
has to represent her here on earth, and you are only fulfilling your Patriarchal
Blessing where it says you will be as a Well of Living Water in a desert,
and people shall flow to you, and call you blessed." While in the temple
some of the sisters told her it had been made known to them that she was
to be called and set apart to take care of the sick in Uintah Stake, as
there was only one doctor, and very little help there for sick people.
She was set apart by the President of the Church, and he told her if she
would go to Ashley Valley, and honor her calling, he would promise her
that her wheat bin would never be empty (which was a great promise in those
days when wheat was so valuable, and her large family to feed). I, her
grandson John H. Haslem, can testify that her children never went hungry
or cold. They lived as well, or better than most other families in the
valley. Everyone was poor out there those days, and all the neighbors wondered
how she provided so well for her family. The Lord surely helped her.
She
worked with the sick many years after she got a cancer that took eleven
years to end her mortal life. She had such a desire to help others her
spirit wouldn't give up. As she grew older she did more genealogy and temple
work, and left a nice book of names of her ancestors, for others to do
the temple work. What more could the Lord ask of one of his humble daughters.
If all of her posterity can only follow in her footsteps, I am sure we
will be OK in the next world, and live much happier here also. Later, in
searching the county records of Salt Lake County, we found where she married
John Shepard,
an Elder and Temple Worker, Aug. 6, 1903. He had a nice small home at about
2nd Ave. and K St., Salt Lake City. She had hoped to spend the rest of
her life doing temple work as she had promised her father,
but for some reason that she wouldn't tell her family, this marriage only
lasted a few years. Then she came back to Vernal, and took up her midwife
business again, and practiced that until her
cancer disabled her.
This
is copied mostly from Alice Southam Cook's
record she got from her father, Harry Southam,
Grandma's oldest child. I have added some as I could remember, when I rode
with her in her two-wheeled cart that she used to visit her sick patients
in. I am 84 years old this year, and this is April 4, 1972.